• Tuesday, January 24, 2006

    Guest Author: PLD by Lady L

    I'm posting this, with permission, from The Secret Brain, written by Lady L. Couldn't have said it better myself.
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    What is PLD? It is the most painful afflication I has ever suffered. Are you curious?

    Post Lover Depression. Have you felt it? You would know it if you had. It surfaces minutes before you part ways with your lover after a night in the throes of passion. You and your lover are sent packing into the cold reality of a miserable marriage, dirty dishes, unfinished work and sometimes a fight for being gone for so long.

    I am suffering from it right now. Another night of making love (this includes HSMJS), laughing, sucking cock, Art eating my pussy and just plain old enjoying each other's company comes to an end. Back to work, back home, back where ever just not with each other and it sucks ass.

    It gets even worse the next day. After a night of restful sleep dreaming sweet dreams of multiple orgasms and cuddling you are startled awake by your spouse's snoring or the dreaded alarm clock. You find yourself on the outtermost edge of the bed, as far away from your spouse as you can get with a pillow in your arms. How depressing.

    Early on Art and I told each other that it would get easier as time went on. Just the opposite actually. The closer we get, the more time we spend together the less time we want to spend a part or worse with our respective spouses.

    The cure? Nothing to do but suffer through it right now. Knowing that we will have another day or night of pleasure and love and that this cycle will continue until we get those real world lives straightened out and we can move our world into that real world. The one comfort and the most important thing in my opinion is that the more time we spend together the more certain we become of our decisions, our feelings. Every day loving each other a little more.

    7 Comments:

    At 10:26 AM, Blogger April said...

    Thank you for sharing this...

    I've been reading quite a bit of your blog today instead of working...I haven't physically cheated on my husband...yet.

    I'm living a life that I'm not sure I want to keep living.

     
    At 5:40 PM, Blogger WryGirl said...

    April: I hope you imply change in lifestyle, not change in actually living. Glad to see you here.

     
    At 7:26 PM, Blogger Tommy said...

    Thank you again for sharing, wrygirl. Hope we can cushion the blow of separation to some small degree, knowing that you've got guys out here who think you're lovely and smart and oh so goddamned sexy...

     
    At 6:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Thank you for this, and also very much for so many other posts. Like April, I've been reading a bit lately, partly for sheer enjoyment ;o) partly because you express so well many things that i've been going through.
    April: hope, like me, you feel at least a bit better for knowing you're not alone.

     
    At 8:22 PM, Blogger April said...

    LOL..it was a lifestyle change I was implying...sorry for the mixup!

     
    At 9:27 PM, Blogger James Scolari said...

    ouch. this hurts on all sides... hope you meet your crossroads (and resolution) soon.

    been through something like it too recently, you see...

     
    At 9:33 PM, Blogger James Scolari said...

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