• Thursday, February 09, 2006

    Never.

    I've never come during oral sex.
    I've never come from finger fucking.

    Reading around the blogs about these types of stories is strange. I feel a combination of jealousy and resignation. I really really really really really wish I could, but after 15 years of sexual activity, I've seen the writing on the wall; it's just not the way I'm wired. Fuck.

    I guess I'll just have to settle for intercourse orgasms, sometimes multiple. O woe. Poor me.

    10 Comments:

    At 4:23 PM, Blogger WryGirl said...

    I wanted stability and a child. Well, I got 'em. Love the child. Otherwise it's all gone crackers.

     
    At 5:52 PM, Blogger James Scolari said...

    heh. yes, poor wry girl... you have my sympathy.

    i wonder if you've tried hard enough, though. mind if i give it a go?

    xo

     
    At 7:37 PM, Blogger Tommy said...

    I know someone who is exactly the opposite, cums like a banshee from oral or manual, but never from intercourse. If we could combine the two of you, we'd have the pleasure machine! I think, alas, your response is not uncommon, and not the end of the world, as long as you have lovers who love to please you. You're just so appealing to me, with the honesty and the thoughtfulness, it's quite a thing!

     
    At 8:08 PM, Blogger WryGirl said...

    Bare Frame: Your generosity is touching, really. :)

    Tommy: That woman would be a find, indeed! You always have a kind word for me, which is a warm fuzzy of another type.

     
    At 8:16 PM, Blogger JUnderCovers said...

    My wife is like Tommy described--comes like a champ with a finger, a vibe or a tongue (when I do it right!), but still nada from intercourse. Well, technically, I can make her come while fucking if I wear the little rhino vibe, but that's cheating, since it's still external and clitoral.

    I'm no expert on the female orgasm (alas), but I have to think that the more you worry and fret about it, the less you are for it to ever happen. If you just relax and enjoy, maybe it'll happen. Of course, having read your recent posts, I know that's not likely too soon, but maybe someday, sometime. We're all rooting for you babe.

     
    At 8:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

    You poor poor baby. Let me try, k?

     
    At 11:31 PM, Blogger Confused Husband said...

    My wife is just like you. In 12 years of being together she has had maybe 5 orgasm's from oral or fingure penetration. but she always orgasm's from intercourse. Just not multiple.
    The times that she has climaxed from oral OMG!! Those were some of the best orgasm's. (At least from my pov ;-) ) They only happen when we are away from the kids and she is completely relaxed.
    So that's my advice. just relax and let it happen.
    CH

     
    At 6:45 PM, Blogger ArtfulDodger said...

    What!?? My goodness woman, just doesn't seem right... never? Sheesh. I can be there in three hours...

     
    At 11:18 AM, Blogger Tess said...

    I am your opposite, never once have come from intercourse - not once. Still, if anyone out there thinks he can make that happen, well I like a man who welcomes a challenge.

    But my real point here is, coming is coming, I don't feel slighted or upset about my lack of the vaginal O. It's just the way I'm wired.

     
    At 3:24 PM, Blogger Jody said...

    main thing is you can cum maybe the way oral is being done on you makes the diference

     

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